Imagine living in a world where there are no consequences. What do you think that would be like?
At first, that sounds kind of intriguing, doesn’t it? You could eat whatever you want… calories wouldn’t count. You could drive as fast as you want… you wouldn’t get tickets, just warnings. You could stay up and party as late as you want… hangovers wouldn’t exist. Hey… you wouldn’t even have to work or pay your bills… someone would just give you free money. (Okay, don’t get me started on the last one!)
In theory, the notion of a consequence-free world sounds great. But in reality, that’s probably not a place that you’d actually want to live. In fact, every time we turn on the evening news, we get a glimpse of what it’s like in places where laws, rules, and consequences are ignored and trampled on.
I think most of us would agree that consequences help maintain balance and control in the world. Fortunately, most people are good and tend to follow rules and obey laws because it’s the right thing to do. The truth is that rules and laws don’t exist because of the ‘good people‘ who follow them. But rather, they’re written to hold all the ‘bad people‘ accountable for when they choose to ignore them. In other words, houses don’t have locks and security systems because of the people who respect other people’s property… locks exist because of all the people who don’t!
And just as important as consequences are to hold us responsible for what we say and do, they also serve another critical role. Consequences help us learn from our mistakes and teach us to make better decisions in the future.
Whether you’re training a new pet, raising kids to be well-behaved, or leading a team of productive employees, the relationship between ’cause and effect’ is absolutely critical for getting more of the behaviors you want and less of the ones you don’t.
As a manager, you probably already know that it’s your job to communicate how much you’re going to expect and how little you’re willing to accept from your team. But even more important than that, you need to follow through on a consistent basis.
Unfortunately, many managers don’t utilize the ’cause and effect relationship’ to their advantage. A lot of managers neglect to reward their employees with ‘positive consequences’ for doing things well, while they often shy away from the discomfort of enforcing the ‘negative consequences’ that come from not doing things properly.
Every day, you’re in a position to teach your team how to be successful while working at your dairy. Each time you fail to connect actions with outcomes, you miss the opportunity to show your team how to create more value for you and for them.
Do yourself and your employees a favor, teach them what works and what doesn’t. Show your team the value of consequences.